I am a guy, and tried the test by answering by what applies to me. I scored 3/10. Now, not all guys are the same, and the answers aren't general for all. (Guess I just said what everybody already knows :S )The answers I got right are: 1\2\10... I see that Dr. Phil thinks all guys have the problem of power struggle, and the issue of the Father\Mother figures... Well, guess many do have such problems, but I think there is a good percentage who don't!!
Well, I guess it is true as much as “girls are moody and inconsistent” is ;)The father/ Mother issue: I think the point is that we learn so much from our parents, the only marriage we can observe in details is our parent’s …Personally my mom taught me so much on how to deal with my future husband, what is my role in the relationship, what are his needs and what I should never accept … but the most I learned I learned from watching … Of course there is exceptions , especially when it comes to divorced parents or when a partner abuses the other , kids watch not only the way parents deal with each other but the “results” as well and based on that they judge and choose .
Exactly, to say that children imitate without judging is a falsehood.
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